Adab Melawat Pesakit

Someone I knew is in difficulties, the family is in harsdhip enough to attract Menteri Besar, MB to give a visit. Their newborn child is diagnosed with heart problem. After the MB visit, many of the neighbour also tend the house showing concern and help. Sadly after the charity visit, some saying bad things about the family, of how the house is dirty and messy. I am not to judge, but that really something shouldn't be discussed openly as I think it is aib that will embarrass the family if they hear it. Afterall the issue is worthless and the discussions is wasting time and it is a sin. Where your concern on the pitiful child, just how much the donation that worth the backbite. Really we have so many sin, prevent ourself making more by talking on petty things like this. Its ok to say the bad thing if for good sake but if just to make a hot story with someone the family know, that is backbiting and it is a sin. Be kind to other, if cant just dont disturb them, they are pitiful enough.