BFF is stand for best friend forever. They are future thing, so you won’t know it today or immediately. It takes time to create the BFF. I am someone who takes friendship deeply and I treasure my friends dearly. You won’t know they are your bestie till you feel it this way:
- You miss the moment with them
- You treasure the memory (either good or bad) as your friendship experience
- You remember more the good things and sincerely forgive the bad experience
- You know mostly about them especially their favorite, dislikes and habit
- You may curious about them but you won’t ask knowing they will not comfortable with the question
- You talk about their kindness to others
- You don’t talk about their bad side or thing they want to keep secret
- You and besties only talk on issue you both comfortable not rumors, backstabbing or bad talk of others
- You willing to share your difficulties because you know they will listen, give you a good advice and cheer on you.
- You are happy with them
- Both of you would not easily have misunderstanding
- They offering help sincerely
- They won’t pry back their good deed because they do it sincerely, but you always talk on how grateful you are for their help and you love them more
- Sometimes you give them present sincerely. The present may be cheap but valuable. The receivers appreciate and treasure your gift with more feeling of love towards you
- Both of you remind each other to be in a good path, to be successful in your career, family, life and to remember Allah
- We do ibadah together
- Sincere in your words
- Hoping the best for each other
- You discuss the old picture and u misses them dearly
- You share good tips, review on products, experience, criminal alert and your daily stories
- You tell your great friendship story to many people and you always happy and smile while talking about it.
- You keep in touch with each other. It might not frequent but still you remember their birthday and important days.
Notes:
- I once love to be a lone ranger, till I labelled as the most independent in our group. I change little bit after I found friends that are kind, caring, clingy, helpful, soft spoken, funny, willing to share and most of all, who help me to be a better Muslim. Thank you friends for your kindness and help. May our friendship last forever. Amin..
- To all my BFF and friends =D
- Specially for my BFF, Mira that encourage me to write. <3 <3 InsyaAllah I will since for the first time someone has request on this humble infamous blog =p At least I will write the topic that you request.. InsyaAllah. =D